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Tuesday, August 13, 2013

My Multiple Husbands...

Inspired by this post...
 https://www.facebook.com/fontainejmarsi/posts/10151317851190132
I created my list of my different husbands ;-)
(the order doesn't matter - I want all of them!)

Husband #1 is the Intellectual / Futurist. He's a mathematician or scientist or engineer. He knows how to program and wants to learn everything! We talk about new research that's just come out and solve math problems together for fun. We love geeking out together, and he helps me to keep my mind active.

Husband #2 is the Acrobat / Athlete. He is totally fit, and can easily lift me over his head. Together we do parkour, and acroyoga, and partner acrobatics. We love working out together, and he helps me to stay fit, strong, and flexible.

Husband #3 is the Dance Partner. He can do a mean tango, a slow sultry blues, and a fun jazz routine. Together we dance totally in sync - no lead, no follow, just dance. We love moving together, and he helps me to find flow and connection.

Husband #4 is the Hot Guy. We might not have much in common, but when I see him across the room, I get hot  He's got a big dick, and he knows how to use it. We love fucking together, and he helps me to feel excited and turned on in life.

Husband #5 is the Best Friend. He's always there for me, and it's so comfortable talking with him and being with him. We share all the ups and the downs of our lives with each other. We love supporting each other, and he helps me to know that everything will always be ok.

Husband #6 is the CEO / Entrepreneur. He's running his own company, dealing with employees, helping customers. We can commiserate about the joys and hardships of owning a business. We love building our businesses together, and he helps me to push myself to think bigger and do more.

Husband #7 is the Philanthropist / SocialDoGooder. He's saving the rainforests, building a school in Africa, and meets with his Little Brother every week, by Skype if he has to! We love changing the world together, and he helps me to think beyond myself and my current worldview.

Husband #8 is the Adventurer / Traveler. He's a nomad, constantly on the move. We're always going to new places and checking out new cultures. Different environments across the globe - from backpacking through Asia to ritzy hotels in Europe to a hexayurt on the playa. We love exploring with each other, and he helps me to be in awe and see the most amazing sights.

Husband #9 is the Father. He is so caring and loving (and yet firm and scaffolding) with our child. He takes an equal role in all aspects of parenting - the fun and play, the education, and the dirty diapers. We love raising our child together, and he helps me to be an amazing mother without losing myself in motherhood.

Thursday, August 8, 2013

A friend's wedding vows...

One of my friends posted their vows - I love seeing couples create their own promises and commitments that make sense within their relationship.

"- I will be your partner in life no matter what the circumstances.

- I vow to be honest with you.

- I promise to stay conscious of my choice to be with you in this relationship.

- I vow to bring playfulness and humor to every day of our lives together.

- I promise to support you to live your life with purpose.

- I will encourage you to grow when you are met with obstacles

- I vow to come from a place of LOVE in all of my interactions with you.

- I promise to keep you informed of my needs and enthusiastically help you get your needs met. 

- I will share the loving and healing energy we create with the world, and use it to catalyze my life purpose."