(as of October 2013) OkCupid got rid of their Journal feature, so moving all of my posts over to Blogger... My OkCupid profile is here... http://www.okcupid.com/profile/multipassionate

Monday, October 29, 2012

A relationship is...

A relationship is about growing together. About a give and take of knowledge and experience. About seeing eye to eye as peers and partners. About not keeping track of who is giving and getting, because giving is getting and vice versa. A relationship is about finding someone who will tell you what you need to hear, especially when no one else will, all while keeping your best interests at heart.  About having someone who can expose you to your unknown unknowns.  A relationship is about finding someone who you can share your deepest insecurities with. About being with someone who can push you to become a better person. Someone who you would trust your life with. Someone who knows all of your mistakes and weaknesses and still thinks the best of you.  Someone who will be your partner forever.

"We're all a little weird, and life's a little weird.  And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love."  -Dr Seuss  :-)